Do you need someone to help you "officially" tie the knot? Today you're in luck! I've found yet another amazing rural wedding celebrant hiding away in Cloncurry.
Check out the interview below:
TRB: Let's get into it Bre, help The Rural Bride tribe get to know you a bit. Tell me a bit about yourself.
BRE: My name is Bre Fagan (I’m 30 next week!) and I live on a magnificent cattle station, just north of Cloncurry. I am originally from the NSW Mid North Coast, but have been living and working on properties in NW QLD for the last decade! You can usually find me in the station schoolroom, delivering distance education to my two fantastic students, via School of the Air. I love the ability to play a major role in the development of remote children’s education. It is such a rewarding role… I can’t call it a job because it never feels like work. Much the same as being a Celebrant!
I live here with my awesome partner and our two pupperoonies, Minnie and Sadie. I have been lucky enough to travel through the states, visit Fiji and call Canada home for one glorious year. No matter where I wander in this world, I always find myself returning to the North West. The dust gets into absolutely everything up here; your car, your house, but mainly your heart.
TRB: So, you're a celebrant. Tell me what made you want become a celebrant, when did you officially become authorised and what do you love about being a celebrant?
BRE: I had been thinking about becoming a celebrant for many years, as I love public speaking and I’m a giant sucker for a good old love story! It really wasn’t until two great friends of mine got engaged that I decided to actually dive in. In 2011 I set them up and we always joked I should be the one to marry them. In in 2017 they got engaged and so of course, I had to become a Celebrant to put the ‘official seal’ on my matchmaking effort! Their wedding was the first ceremony I had ever performed. I was also the bridesmaid and MC, so that was a full on gig! Nothing like diving in the deep end!
Photo by Image Photography
I was authorised as a Marriage Celebrant in January 2018 and since then have performed five Marriages and one Naming Ceremony, ranging in places from NSW, Normanton, Mount Isa and Cloncurry. I have three more marriages scheduled for the end of the year, in Karumba, Georgetown and Townsville. I absolutely love travelling all over Queensland to provide my clients with an unforgettable ceremony!
I am so chuffed to be able to perform so many ceremonies in my first year of registration. Given I am a newby in this field, I love that so many people are already trusting me to provide a knock out ceremony – and feedback from couples, guests and photographers who have watched me in action would already show I am doing just that! The fact myself and most of my clients are geographically remote, also makes the number of ceremonies I will perform this year amazing! There is an upward trend of people staying locally to get married and I believe this is thanks to the uprising of so many incredible wedding vendors out west, such as Vicki Miller Photography, Lindy Hick Photography, Flinders and Mitchell Florist, Blossom Shoppe and not to mention general friends and family who are stylish enough to knock up some great arbours and decorations! I’m so humbled to be part of that fancy little circle now too! (Being the only Registered Celebrant in the Cloncurry area helps too!)
Photos by Image Photography
TRB: When you’re meeting with a couple for the first time, what are you trying to sus out and work out with them for them?
BRE: The most important thing when I chatting to a couple for the first time (given our big gorgeous region that could be face to face, via phone, skype or email), is making sure that our vibes suit each other. I think it is so important to make a ceremony the kick start to a brilliant day, so I want to provide a service that is full of cheers, laughter and a few happy tears in those special raw moments of love.
In our first meeting I explain my ethos to the couple and they will share with me how they want their day to roll too. If we both decide to swipe right, I get the ball rolling by first completing their NOIM and then I send them off with a short questionnaire which I ask them to complete and return without the other person seeing their answers. I base the ceremony on these answers to make sure it’s full of their personality! I often persuade my grooms to get writing with the promise of a six pack on submission. So far, my grooms have blown me away with the hilarious and sweet content they return! Anything for a beer, huh?!
TRB: Why do you have to lodge the NOIM before the big day? How long before does it need to be lodged?
BRE: It is a legal requirement to lodge your NOIM (Notice of Intended Marriage) at least one clear month and no longer than 18 months, before your wedding date. In Australia we try to protect the sanctity of marriage by requesting a couple to wait one month before they say ‘I do!’, simply to allow both parties to understand the importance of the decision they are making together. Let’s think of it as a ‘cooling off period’ so there is no ‘buyer’s remorse’.
Photo by Hayley Aplin Photography
TRB: How long would you say a standard ceremony lasts?
BRE: From the moment the bride walks in, to the time I send them on their merry way as Husband and Wife, is usually around 20 minutes. I find this is the perfect amount of time to tell their story and share some rocking vows and bling, whilst keeping the guests engaged in every word too! This timeframe depends greatly on how long the couple wants their ceremony to run and whether they want special people recite readings, blessings or poems within the ceremony too.
TRB: What's the best part of the wedding prep and what do you get excited about most?
BRE: The best part of my wedding prep is firstly hearing about my couple’s plans for the big day and delving into the style they’re trying to create. A very close second is receiving the couple’s questionnaires I ask each person to fill in. I use the answers on the short questionnaire to create their personalised ceremony. Oh boy, some responses I get see me in fits of laughter or reaching for the Kleenex!
TRB: What’s your fav thing about a wedding/ceremony?
BRE: Can I say all of it? Because honestly, ALL OF IT! If I had to pick one, the part I get excited for most is the final presentation of the new Mr + Mrs. Before I send them back down the aisle at the very end of the ceremony, I make sure everyone is wound up and ready to explode with love, hugs and lots of cheers! It’s a brilliant moment! It takes me so long to wind down after a wedding because I truly feel alllll the feels, right along with my couple and their guests.
Photos by Cassie Jessup Photography
TRB: Tell me honestly, what takes over your body more as the bride is walking up the aisle to her partner, nerves or excitement?
BRE: As the bride is walking down the aisle, I take this moment to look around at the reactions from all their guests and drink in the happiness! In this moment I have no nerves at all, just a very full heart and perhaps a sneaky watery eye – you know, going out in sympathy with the groom and all!
TRB: Finally, the most important question of all... Why are rural brides just the best?
BRE: This one is super simple... Rural brides are the best because they tend to be super relaxed, fun and uber trendy! A combination I just can't get enough of!
Photos by Cassie Jessup Photography
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Bre has a pretty decent string of wedding related pictures to get your inspo flowing.
You can contact Bre via her socials or email- firstname.lastname@example.org
Or visit her website- www.brefagancelebrant.com
Photo by Cassie Jessup Photography